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I've worked in dairy farming for years and would move with my partner and young child if I can find steady work. What should I sort out before I decide whether to move?
If you’ve spent years working in dairy farming, you already have valuable, practical experience to build on. With a partner and a young child, though, I’d make the decision around more than just getting a job: you want reliable income, secure housing, and a good family life before you commit to moving.
The best approach is to treat the move as a plan to establish your family, rather than simply a change of farm.
What to sort out before you move
1. Secure steady dairy work
Ideally, have a written job offer before relocating. Look for a farm with a proven employment history, clear expectations, and a realistic roster.
- Confirm your pay, guaranteed hours, start date and employment agreement.
- Ask whether the role is permanent or seasonal.
- Clarify early starts, weekend work, calving season and time off.
- Check whether accommodation is included and what it costs.
- Ask about progression into senior farm assistant, herd manager or farm manager roles.
2. Work out your housing situation
Farm accommodation can make a move much more affordable, but you need to know whether it suits a family.
- Is the house suitable for two adults and a young child?
- Is rent deducted from your wages, and are utilities included?
- Is the tenancy tied to your employment?
- What happens to your housing if you leave the job?
- If you rent privately, are suitable homes available within your budget?
3. Plan for your partner and child
The job needs to work for your whole household, especially if you're working long or irregular hours.
- Check childcare availability, fees and hours that fit your roster.
- Find out about local schools or early childhood education options.
- Consider your partner's employment prospects, transport and social support.
- Check access to a GP, pharmacy and other essential services.
- Agree on how you'll share childcare during early starts and busy seasons.
4. Calculate what you'll actually have left
Don't compare jobs on headline pay alone. Compare the money left after your family’s essential costs.
Include:
- Take-home pay after tax and any student loan deductions.
- Rent, power, internet, groceries and childcare.
- Fuel, vehicle costs or public transport.
- Moving costs, bond and initial household expenses.
- Emergency savings if the job ends unexpectedly.
If possible, build a reserve that covers several weeks of essential expenses before moving.
5. Check the employer and the contract
Before accepting, speak to the farm owner or manager and, where possible, a previous employee.
Ask about staff turnover, training, safety, workload during calving and how problems are handled. Read the employment agreement carefully, including hours, pay, deductions, leave and termination terms.
Make sure the roster and accommodation arrangements are confirmed in writing rather than relying on verbal promises.
6. Check the practical details of moving within New Zealand
Before giving up your current home or job, check these points:
- Transport: Will you need a reliable vehicle to get to work, childcare and shops?
- Location: How far is the farm from a supermarket, medical centre and early childhood centre?
- Timing: Can you arrange housing, childcare and your start date without leaving your family in a difficult position?
- Backup plan: If the job falls through, can you afford to stay temporarily or move back?
Dairy work can be year-round, but hours and workloads may change with the season. Read the official guide to working on a New Zealand dairy farm before accepting an offer. Working on a New Zealand dairy farmEmployment agreements
7. Check what financial support your family might qualify for
Depending on your circumstances, you may qualify for help with childcare, housing or family costs.
- Working for Families — eligibility and payments depend on factors including family income and residency.
- Childcare assistance and other support — check whether you qualify for childcare subsidies or accommodation assistance.
Treat any support as a possible extra, rather than money you rely on before confirming eligibility. Working for Families overviewWorking for Families
My recommendation: don't move until these five things are clear
Family relocation checklist
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I have a written job offer with clear pay, hours and start date.
We have suitable family accommodation and know the full cost.
We have a realistic weekly budget based on take-home pay.
We have a workable childcare and transport plan.
We have enough savings or a backup plan if the job doesn't work out.
Let's make this specific to your situation
The biggest factor is what kind of move you're considering. Are you planning to move somewhere else within New Zealand, or are you moving to New Zealand from another country?
That will determine whether we should focus on finding a suitable dairy job and family housing, or also cover work visas and immigration requirements.
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Captured 15–20 October 2026