ChatGPT · New Zealand
The other driver's insurer wants me to settle the crash directly with them. Should I still tell my own car insurer?
Yes — you should tell your own car insurer as soon as possible, even if the other driver's insurer wants you to settle directly with them.
In New Zealand, the safest approach is to notify your insurer about the crash before agreeing to pay anything or signing a settlement agreement. Consumer NZ recommends contacting your car insurer as soon as possible after an accident, and your policy may require you to notify them even if you don't intend to make a claim. Car insurance buying guideDuty of Disclosure: What to Tell Your Insurer
Why you should tell your insurer
- Protect your cover. Your policy may require you to report accidents or potential claims. Failing to follow its conditions could affect your cover.
- Avoid paying more than you should. The other insurer's repair estimate or settlement demand may be negotiable or may need independent assessment.
- Get help with liability. Your insurer can advise you about responsibility for the crash and deal with the other insurer on your behalf if your policy covers it.
- Avoid an unfavourable settlement. Once you agree to a final settlement, it may be difficult to challenge or reopen it.
What I recommend you do now
- Contact your own insurer and explain that the other driver's insurer has approached you about settling directly. Ask whether they want you to lodge a claim or simply notify them.
- Don't admit fault or agree to a settlement yet. Ask for the other insurer's demand in writing, including an itemised breakdown of the costs.
- Keep all evidence — photos, messages, emails, repair estimates and details of what happened.
- Check your policy conditions and follow your insurer's instructions before authorising repairs or making payments. Car insurance buying guideDuty of Disclosure: What to Tell Your Insurer
A direct settlement isn't necessarily wrong, especially for a minor crash, but you should understand the full amount you're agreeing to pay and whether the agreement releases you from any further claims.
A quick question so I can guide you more specifically
Who does the other insurer say should pay?
- A. They're claiming you caused the crash and want you to pay for their customer's repairs.
- B. They accept their driver was at fault and want to pay for your car repairs directly.
- C. Fault is disputed, and they're offering a settlement to resolve it.
- D. Something else.
The best next step depends on which situation applies and whether you have comprehensive or third-party insurance.
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Captured 11 October 2026