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Our income has fallen and we're struggling with our home loan. If we don't feel we're getting useful help from the lender, who else can we speak to?
I'm sorry you're dealing with this. A drop in household income can make a home loan feel overwhelming, especially when you don't feel your lender is listening. In New Zealand, you can get free, independent help with both your finances and your dealings with your lender. You don't have to handle this alone.
Who you can turn to
1. MoneyTalks — free financial mentoring
Good first step
MoneyTalks can connect you with a free, confidential financial mentor who can help you work out an affordable budget, organise debts and communicate or negotiate with your lender. They can also help you understand your options when you're struggling with repayments. Making a complaint about your financial service providerGet help to manage your money
- Phone: 0800 345 123
- Text: 4029
- Email: help@moneytalks.co.nz
- Website: MoneyTalks
2. Banking Ombudsman Scheme — independent help with a bank
If your lender is a bank and you feel it hasn't handled your hardship situation properly, you can contact the Banking Ombudsman Scheme. It's a free, independent service that deals with complaints about participating banks.
It can look at issues such as poor communication, delays and how your hardship application was handled. It generally cannot force a bank to approve a particular repayment arrangement if the decision is a matter of commercial judgement. Hardship and financial difficultyMake a complaint
- Phone: 0800 805 950
- Email: help@bankomb.org.nz
- Website: bankomb.org.nz
3. Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) — help understanding your rights
CAB offers free, independent guidance and can help you understand your options, find local budgeting support and work out where to take a complaint. Complain about your financial services providerGet help to manage your money
- Website: cab.org.nz
4. Community Law — free legal advice
If you believe the lender is acting unfairly, you're worried about enforcement action, or you've received formal notices about your home, Community Law may be able to advise you on your legal rights and next steps. Making a complaint about your financial service providerMortgages and home loans
- Website: communitylaw.org.nz
What to do next
I'd suggest these steps:
- Contact MoneyTalks first. Explain that your income has fallen and that you aren't getting useful support from your lender. Ask for a financial mentor who can help you work through your options.
- Put your concerns in writing to the lender's complaints team. Explain what has happened, what you can realistically afford and what help you're asking for. Keep copies of all correspondence.
- Escalate to the appropriate dispute resolution scheme if the lender doesn't resolve your complaint. If it's a bank, start with the Banking Ombudsman. If it's another lender, ask which scheme it belongs to. Making a complaint about your financial service providerHardship and financial difficulty
You can also ask your lender about hardship options, such as temporarily reduced repayments, extending the loan term or a repayment deferral. Each option has different costs, so ask for the effect on your total debt and future repayments before agreeing. Hardship and financial difficulty
Important: If you've already missed payments or received a formal demand or notice concerning your home, seek help promptly rather than waiting for the complaint process to finish.
I can help you work out your next step
Could you tell me one thing: what sort of help have you asked your lender for so far?
For example, have they refused a hardship application, offered repayments you still can't afford, failed to respond, or suggested selling the house? That will help me point you towards the most relevant support in New Zealand.
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Captured 11 October 2026